Wooler, Margaret (1792–1885):
Margaret Wooler was the headmistress at Roe Head, where Charlotte was first a pupil and later a teacher. She was the daughter of a prosperous maltster and part of a large family with strong and lasting bonds. Charlotte’s time as pupil at the school was unusually happy: there was a small core of other pupils, among whom she found two lifelong friends, and Miss Wooler was cultivated, something of a linguist, and presented an attractive front to her pupils, with her beautiful voice and her story-telling abilities, exercised especially during the evening, when she would walk up and down the large rooms of the house with favored pupils around her to converse with. The syllabus of the school seems conventional, but it was broader than that of most good boys’ schools of the time, where classics dominated. Margaret Wooler seems to have been not the flamboyant, personality-impressing kind of teacher, but genuinely one of those for whom “education is a leading out” (Muriel Spark, The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie, 1961, where Miss Brodie is a poor example of her principle). Her personality was retiring, quietly impressive, and her moral judgment was something that Charlotte would always want to take into consideration. Later on the relationship went through some bad patches, notably when Charlotte was teaching at Roe Head and was herself going through crises both religious and personal.
Miss Wooler is a very important person in Charlotte's story, Of all those close to Charlotte, only Miss Wooler let CB find her own way about a marriage to Mr. Nicholls.
BeantwoordenVerwijderenCharlotte's father, Patrick was in a royal huff and Ellen broke off their friendship for 6 months over the question.
Miss Wooler stood by Charlotte and trusted her judgment
So it was well Miss Wooler gave Charlotte away since she was approving of the marriage from the start.
If one wants a true picture of Charlotte's married happiness, you must read CBN's letters to Miss Wooler rather than Ellen .
Because Miss Wooler was truly happy for Charlotte, Charlotte could be more open about her new found happiness.
Miss Wooler also was one of the few who regarded Charlotte's husband, Arthur as the most bereft from her loss .
Miss Wooler wrote to Arthur after Charlotte's death she would always grieve the loss of Charlotte,
" .... but what is my grief next to yours?
Certainly one can't see Ellen saying that.
God Bless Miss Wooler